Wednesday, January 21, 2004
Stop it!!!!!
This is the first time i really expressing my anger....
I really hate that scene happened at my home just now....
This Chinese New Year is already a sad one, why my dad had to make it worst.
this year, according to Chinese customs, we are not allowed to celebrate chinese New year as we are still mourning over my grandpa's death. that means no or less ang pows. ( my parents can't give out but we--the grandchildren, can receive).
Not that i mind over the ang pows, i dun think we are in the mood to celebrate.
But still my mum thought we can go to our grandma house (maternal side) on 2nd day of new year, not to celebrate , but just to stay there for the afternoon.
this afternoon, Dad came home and told my mum not to go to her mum's (my grandma) place on the second day. My mum got agitated as we are just returning to visit, not as in pai4 nian2 (拜年), and the priest who was doing the rituals at my grandpa's funeral said we can go back to our own grandparents houses during chinese New Year ( but not others' houses).
over the dinner ( which mum did not go) at grandma's (paternal side) place, it seems like it was this grandma who dun want us to go to our other grandma house.
Reached home, Mum was telling Dad that she had check with her friends that we can go.
yet Dad shouted, " Don't argue with me. I had bear with u for a long time!"
Mum left home in a huff......
Why do things have to be like that!!!!!!!!!!!!
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