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Name: [Harmonie Wong]
Date of Birth: [17 Aug 1981]
Gender: [Female]
Location: [Singapore]
Email: [harmonie_wong@hotmail.com]
Description: [Not going to spend time here introducing myself. To my dear friends, relax, I didn't change my name to "Harmonie Wong". If you hadn't read my first entry, it's just a nick. However, there is a story behind. "Wong"was chosen because of family's history with the surname. As for "Harmonie", it's because of a numerology pairing with "Wong". You can read more abt it in my 1st entry. I know that the online world is not 100% secure, so won't be revealing too much. & my dear friends, rest assured that I'll not be mentioning yr real life names in this blog.]

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Tuesday, October 04, 2005

Somehow a series of events which happened recently had apparently led me to become a “spokesperson” for my friends.
I don’t mind helping them out as I had my own experiences where I just dun wanna keep on repeating the same thing to my friends’ questions, especially when it is not something to rejoice about.
Being a spokesperson, you gotta know when to release the news, what are the details should be released and what shouldn’t.

Just hope I did a good job….



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This is a season of ditches, don’t you think so?
Then is it a mere coincidence that a number of my friends regained their single hood status around this period and the same happened to my friends’ circle of friends?


What struck me was that these friends had break from a very long term relationship.
看来很少人经得起爱情长跑,
更不用说他们最终会与初恋长相厮守。

很多情侣选择结束了多年的感情,大多数是经过了那么多年,他们之间所面对的问题都还没有办法解决。 托托拉拉了那么多年,心都累了。即使知道心里还深爱对方,但还是决定“手放开”。毕竟勉强是没有幸福的,结束几年的感情总好过结束几年的婚姻。


因为儿时读了太多童话所受到的影响,希望长大后只要谈一次恋爱就好; 与初恋长相厮守。虽然我的初恋当时也是抱着这样的心态,可是经过了一段日子,他比我先领悟到这样拖下去是没有幸福的。时间并不能改变一切,反而证明有些问题, 我们没有办法解决的。有那么多问题要面对,感情自然变淡了。

有人说,感情变淡时,要努力去挽救。
我们曾试着去挽回,可是于事无补。
后来经过热朋友的指点,我才领悟到:“爱情不是靠努力的,因为爱情是出自于一种动力。”

接下来的故事, 好朋友应该知道.
要不是因为有了那次的分手, 我想我不会遇到第二位前男友.
虽然不曾吵架, 但不代表问题不存在.
原以为痛过一次, 会变麻木或坚强. 但面对着第二次的感情失败, 就好象有那种"你带我上天堂, 又推我下去" 的伤痛。

曾怨过天,为什么不能让我谈一次常长久久的恋爱。 如今, 反而庆幸恋情结束得早。

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Hmm , seems like I 'd let my thoughts drift too far again. There are some more thoughts to be penned. Shall continue it another day.

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