Wednesday, October 06, 2004
that survey......
Yesterday, was asked to do a survey in the office for some writer colleague of another magazine.
Topic was " Is There a Man from your past that you still think of"
Q1. What was he to you in the past ?
Options: boyfriend/classmate/colleague/friend/unrequited love...
Q2. How long ago was this?
Q3. What's your most vivid memory of him?
Q4. Does your man know abt him?
Q5. Are you both secretly in touch ?
Options : by email/phone/ letters/ bday cards
Q 6. If no, have you try to get in touch from him?
Q7. Do you ask abt him from mutual friends
Q8. Would you go out with him if he ask u?
Q 9. If yes what kind of meeting would it be?
Options: casual lunch/romantic dinner/ daytime thing -quick coffee/ internet camera phone chat/ night time thing-- bar for drinks/ definately a date./ at a hotel/home for sex
Q10. If no, why not?
Options: It would never be the same now/ I am afraid he's probably fat, balding ugly now/ I am older, fatter, uglier now/ Ii dun wanna cheat on my hubby or invite trouble/ all of the above
Q11. How would you prepare for it?
Options: lose weight/ botox/ collagen/ Skin resurfacing/ teeth whitening/ dental treatment/ facial + eyebrow grooming/ makeover studio, buy a new dress
Q12. Do you still wonder if you would be happier with him than your present partner?
Options: Yes/No
Q13. Do you think that he would have made a better partner than who u are with now?
Options: Yes/ No/ Don't know
I tried to fill up as to help my colleague, but choose not to do in the end cos the questions are either inappropriate ( i am not married) or too personal. Even though we need not fill in our names, but my colleagues still can get a chance to see the answers while helping to compile. Glancing through the questions already brought me pain, as it forced me to think about him again.
Well, what they say is true, you won't miss a person much until they are gone. If J still remains as friend, I dun think i will miss him that much and feeling hurt whenever i thought of him.
I dunno if the love for him is still there, but what i know is because we did not remain in contact , I often can't help wondering how's he's doing now? Dunno if he's happy with his job or life now....
I chose to see him for the last time in May. So it's will have to depend on fate & him to see if our paths will cross again.....
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Wed 6 Oct
Went to watch New Police Story II at PlazaSingapure 's GV with WL. Not a bad movie, but a bit unused to see Jackie Chan cried so many times. Charlie Yueng still looks good and pretty despite being older now.
Went home, then sis was like discussing her 21st bday plans with parents. Not that i was jealous, but I was hurt. On my 21 bday, they never hold celebration nor give me any presnts, yet for sister, they are going to hold one for her.
What's the point of giving them $ when they never give u love & concern. My sis till now never have them any allowance depsite haing earnings from holiday work and tuition. I had been giving them allowance ever since i start my holiay job when i was 15. If they dote on her just because she is now stuying in University, can't they remember that I sacrificed the chance to go to Uni because I dun want to see my sis out in the society with just a A'level cert ( my dad's CPF could only allow for one's tertiary education) .
I dun wanna comment anymore.......
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