Wednesday, March 09, 2005
A series of unhappy events
Sometimes, I don't wish to go home, can't stand that place anymore.
Already felt so despaired yesterday, yet my parents did something which made me feel pissed off.
Not to me though, but to my bro.
Just because my mum suddenly went into bro's room, and caught him sms \-ing instead of doing homework, she create a big fuss by snatching away his handphone and then took it to her room. Then bro was very angry when he saw them reading all his sms, and asked them not to read, saying that those are private matters.
Mum shouted:"为什么不可以看。你没做错事怕什么！”
I really condemn this type of thinking, she always think that as a parent, she can see anything belong to us , always thinking that she’s right.
Yes, I 'll always remember years ago, she opened up my bank account statement, even though the letter was addressed to me and marked “Private & Confidential”. I still remembered how despicable she was, opening up my dad’s letters, asking me to explain the English terms, and then glued the envelope back.
Bro was unhappy, cos he’s 15yrs old and still being treated this way. He banged his water bottle while washing. And “thanks” to my mum who 加盐加醋, my dad got fed up, closed the doors and whacked my bro.
I was bathing then, but I could hear my bro screaming in pain and my dad shouting. Think he whacked him with his belt(which he always did). And my mum still trying to make matters worse by adding how lazy my bro was, always playing video or computer games.
I dunno what happened exactly, but could figured out that my dad made my bro throw away things he had bought using his own savings,(maybe it’s those Gundam figurines and those cards). I felt so sorry for my bro, if my dad threw away those Gundam toys, some were bought by me and my sis as his presents. And I know my poor bro, had to skip meals at recess, to buy those Gundam models. But he has a talent for fixing them, he could fix up a medium size one in less than 2 hrs.
There are some things that my dad found, for I heard him scolding my bro regarding another mater. And my mum was like continuing to make matters worse, saying she always sees him using the internet or playing games when she return from work.
One thing she never realized, though my bro had a part to play for not having good grades, she’s at fault too. My bro is not stupid, for he was one of the top in class when he was in kindergarten and in lower primary. Hadn’t my mother realized that it was she who wanted to have more money (to herself), went to work part-time, leaving my bro alone at home. With nobody around at home, and not allowed to go out, that’s y he’ll feel bored and rather play games to pass his time.
Didn’t she realize that she got a part to play in educating him, and her way of disciplining him doesn’t work.
Don’t feel like continue writing this piece anymore………..
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我真得很累了。。。。。
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