Wednesday, November 09, 2005
2 incidents
Picture this scenario:
一对正在热恋中的情侣在街上漫步。
突然，男孩停下脚步。
“慢着!” 男孩轻声说.
已跨前一步的女孩这时也感觉到他们俩牵着的手所传来的那股拉力.
女孩转身， 看见男孩深情款款地望着她.
一秒， 两秒...
女孩发觉男孩的眼神好温柔。
三秒，四秒...
男孩还是含情脉脉地望着女孩。
女孩这时感到心跳加速， 有点不知所措。
她鼓起勇气， 轻声问：“怎么了？”
男孩微笑着， 开口说：
“你脸上有五粒 pimples。”( *_*!!!) 冷..........
What a "头冒出三条线" joke. And tell you the truth, this is not a joke I had receivde from mass mail or heard from friends. It is base on a true experience I had.
Yes, the guy mentioned is my 2nd ex.
The reason why I decided to post it here not purposely to commemorate the 2nd anniversary of my detachment. 不是刻意记下我们分手的日子， 只不过几天前， 我突然想起我和他好像已正式分手了两年。 翻察日记， 果然如此！
And it so happened that just a day later, while chatting with a friend, we came to this topic on bfs "insulting" their gfs by giving them nicknames such as "pig", "sotong". And I was recalling if my ex had the same habit. Mentioned that if I am not wrong, my ex din made any insulting remarks but then recalled that quite a few times, he like to count how many pimples I had and he got flawless complexion lor.
当我在向朋友叙述那事件时, 不经发觉到我现在可以笑着回忆我和他所经历的点点滴滴.
每当脑海里浮现着那些关于我们所去过的地方, 看过的电影,吃过的东西的画面, 以往的感觉是:"你是我胸口永远的痛". 但现在可以说是抱着一种"感谢你曾经爱过我"的态度.
但遗憾还是会有的. 至于我是为了什么而感到遗憾, 我想:只有我的好友才知道.
Note:
My first draft was written on 9 Nov but it was only today (12 Nov) then I manage to complete it.
Wanted to complete it yesterday (Thur) but wasn't in to mood to.
Was in a bad mood since yesterday evening. What a super suay evening. Spoilt my mouse, got locked out of my computer, then faced one one failed negotiation.
i wonder how I manage to pull through my whole day with just 3 hrs of sleep. Was out attending a course 2day and I dunno where I got the energy to check out the party store at HV, hopping to get some decorating ideas ...
Was feeling rather 委屈in the morning when my friend (though i know she din mean any harm) asked me to revert to the other party that she is willing to pay the stated amount now and say (to him) that I was just helping her to cut cost, so 大人有大量.
Now it seems that I have to beg him to reconsider the decision and have to make it that it is my fault for initiating the negotation(when I was in fact being asked to negotiate with him).
That is the disadvantage of being the co-ordinator (the middle person), having to run between the two parties and then taking all the shit. For them, they have less reposibilities as I am the one having to answer to my friend. I am pissed off with myself that i did not did a good job.
Hai..... here I am whining. Not blaming anyone lah. Of cos I am on good terms with my friend, or else I wun be willing to take up the role of her wedding decor IC. She is this happy-go-lucky gal who seems to think that all problems can be easily solved. She hasn't been dealing with the other party directly and hence simply think that by agreeing to his terms now, i can managed to get him take up her offer.
Not she she dun take "No" for an answer. She now seems to be so insistent on having balloon arch and sculptures as she know that no matter what other ideas i can come out up, "the balloon idea" is still one which can create a "wow!" effect. So now she had up her budget but that doesn't mean the other party will take up her offer as it is not a "must" for him , nor he is obliged to do it for her in anyway.
Personally, I will choose to take p the offer if I were him. On a biz point of view, it can be a project to build up one's portfolio and there are many hidden opportunies as guests from the dinner might wish to engage the service too.
hai...... wish me luck.
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