Tuesday, June 27, 2006
something and questions
A recent casual chat with a friend regarding someone makes me wonder why some people never dare to admit they are TRULY in the wrong, and what makes it worst is that the person push the blame to other when he is in the wrong.
I am not going to reveal what he did cos it is too disgusting, but a reference case would be as follows:
X was caught shoplifting a mp3 player. Yet he pushed the blame to his parents for not giving him enough money.
Do you think his parents were the one at fault?
Yeah, I am angry cos it concerns my friend. Even when he had done something wrong, he pushed the blame to her. She stood by him for a few months and eventually she decided to break up. Seriously speaking, I really respect her for being able to have the courage to stay with him after what he did. I myself will never know how face such a person. Yet she never really told others what was the main reason behind her decision. I only got to know it after a few months.
Apparently, he’s sore abt the breakup; yet he never reflects on his character. He chose to portray himself as the good guy, telling ppl how good he has been to her, how 伟大 he was to let her go. I had seen the type of smses he sent her, yet he still got the cheek to call me and pretend to be a good guy and asking me to help him take good care of her. I wanna puke.
What worse now is that he has been trying to portray her as a 爱慕虚荣，劈腿 person to our common friends when he is obviously in the wrong! Perhaps he knew she has been keeping quiet. Quote what my friend’s saying “Keeping quiet doesnt mean admitting to any wrong, neither it is a show of guilty conscious”. But I believe everyone got his/her limits. He himself should know what will other think of him if she decides to reveal what had happened.
Perhaps you might think I am threatening him here, but it’s not the case. I dun think he’s reading my blog. Yah, you can say I too protective of my close friends (it’s the same case when I feel that another friend should not be too good to give up something to another one when he needs it more.) I just can’t stand it to hear him spinning stories which hurt her reputation.
Shall end with two questions for my friends (just to hear yr views)
1) For gals : Which is more acceptable, a two-timing bf or a bf who had done some perverted act? Guys, pls add this phrase to the question to “If your are a female…, “
2) Would you advise Friend A to keep an item for herself , when another friend , Friend B ask for it though she used to have another piece of the same item but had given it to another person who likes it? The item contains achievements of Friend A, but u know Friend B is selfless by giving away the only piece of item she has.
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